Why I Believe in You

I believe in you.

Don't dismiss this just because we haven't met. I do believe in you, and I hope this helps you believe in yourself.

I believe in you because I believe in the process of how we achieve goals.

I believe action plus reflection equals results.

Having the goal of going from dating to exclusive is like setting the point on the GPS for where you want to go.

Then deciding what you want to think, creating that mindset, taking action, and reflecting on the results of those actions is the trip that you take to get there.

You change your mindset and start to feel a new way, and then you start to show up differently.

I believe in you because I believe in the dating process that I teach you here, on my podcast, and in my coaching program.

If you haven’t been taught much about dating, it makes sense if you haven’t been able to create the kind of relationships that you want yet.

You just needed some different information.

I believe in you because people like you.

There are people in this world, such as your friends and your family, who like you.

That means that there are other people who will click with you, and that's true in dating too.

I know for a fact that there are people who get your humor, who think you're funny, interesting, and awesome, and who notice and like all of the good things about you.

I believe in you because you've done it before.

Many of you have actually been in a relationship before and you just want to do it a little bit better. Maybe you want to find somebody who's a better fit.  

You just want to hone your skills a little bit to become exclusive with somebody who it can really last with.

And I also believe in you even if you haven't done it before.

If you have been single for your entire life, I still believe in you because the past doesn't equal the future.

You can start to create something new and different in the future.

You can look to the past for evidence of what you can do, but you can also let go of the past because it has no bearing on what's possible tomorrow.

I believe in you because you don't have to be perfect to make it work.

You don't have to eliminate all of your flaws, follow the dating process perfectly, or find the perfect person. It's not like that.

Just by reading this you’re learning things that you can apply to your dating life.

Trust the process.

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This content was originally published on the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.